Hi John,
I went through this with my BJ7 (which has the same posts as the BJ8). I removed the rivets holding the J hooks and the stainless steel bar you speak of. I left the other rivets after reviewing the parts with the chome shop and it probably saved me some grief. The J hooks rivets I got from British Car Specialists. The also sold me rivets for the SS piece but they were not right (they sent the rivets with the large domed head .. the ones I did not replace so let me know if you need those). I found the right rivets for the SS bar at a local metal/surplus store.
Installation for the SS bar to the post .. First used flat hd. screws/washer/nuts through two of the holes to clamp the two parts together. Then placed two flat head type steel (SS) rivets and used duct tape to hold in place and protect the chrome. Then using a high quality drift (snap on brand) and big hammer, flattened the rivets into place. This required 4 hands, a heavy duty vise/anvil and lots of pursuasion. Once the two rivets were set then the flat head screws were removed and the other two rivets set. Might be able to do the same with a large press and fixturing. Another suggestion to find some one who does small plane maintenence at a local airport. They usually have lots of rivet experience and tools/dies/squeezers to get the job done.
Cheers,
John